Business Growth, Inner Healing - September 9, 2025
When we talk about recovery, most of us think of healing as something personal: the quiet, hard, brave work we do in therapy, in community, and in relationship. But what if Recovery could also be the foundation of how we run our businesses?
What if your therapist business model didn’t just support client healing, but also embodied it in every decision, relationship, and policy?
This isn’t theoretical. It’s absolutely possible.
At The Healing Collective (HC), we help therapists build recovery-aligned private practices that feel like healing—on the inside and out. For us, recovery isn’t something you leave at the door when you become a leader. It’s the soil everything grows from.
In this guide, you’ll learn how to build a healing-centered leadership model, starting with your values and translating them into business decisions, team culture, and sustainable practice infrastructure.
Before you ever create a policy or build a team, there’s a deeper question:
Who are you in recovery, and how does that shape who you are as a leader?
In personal relationships, we all have non-negotiables—those boundaries that create safety, clarity, and connection. The same applies to your business. In fact, your business values should emerge from your personal recovery work.
If you value self-awareness, authenticity, and ownership in relationships, those can directly translate into values-based leadership traits like transparency, integrity, and vulnerability. These aren’t vague ideals. They are your guideposts for how people relate to you, how they work within your practice, and how you lead with intention.
“Creating the values of your company is similar to creating the relationship boundaries of an intimate relationship. It sets others up for success by clarifying how to show up.”
— Internal HIP Founder Notes
Let’s break this down using The Healing Collective’s core values, which we use to model trauma-informed business practices:
Every value can become a policy, structure, or ritual in your group or solo private practice. It just takes intention.
Many therapists leave agencies because of burnout, overwork, and misalignment—only to unintentionally recreate the same dynamics in their own group practice.
If you believe that trauma happens in relationship, then healing must happen there too. Your business model must hold emotional safety, rupture/repair, and co-created power structures.
“Stronger as a team.”
— HC Value: Collaboration
This is what healing-centered leadership looks like in action.
I find I use and lean on my recovery to inform most of my relationships, especially at work, because they incorporate power and authority—both things that were wounds in my past. Rather than puff up and become what was done to me, I choose to do things differently. I choose not to react but ask for time to process. I never make decisions based on emotion. Hiring and firing are business decisions based in safety.
When I’m providing feedback to my team individually or as a group, the check-in is always “How are you as a human first, then let’s talk business.” I want to see them as human, not a number. I offer feedback using tools that help them own what’s happening while still having their feelings.
It is important to me to model all the feelings so our culture reflects connection and psychological safety—even when it’s hard. Saying “no” isn’t power-based; it’s honest and kind. I often say, “This is hard for me to say and I have to say no.”
I don’t use control to lead. I believe in attraction, not promotion. My team works with me because they want to. But safety is a skill many have never been taught. So my job is to teach them how to be safe, feel safe, and show up professionally—because no one else may have done that.
I don’t like the term boss. I see myself as a catalyst. My role is to help my team shine and launch into versions of themselves more empowered than I am today. That’s healing leadership.
Use the HC Values graphic to evaluate your culture:
This is how you turn values into systems. Healing into structure.
You don’t have to choose between being ethical and being profitable. Between being in Recovery and being a powerful leader.
You get to build a trauma-informed, values-based, recovery-centered practice that supports you and your people.
Recovery is slow, relational, brave work.
So is leadership.
The two belong together.
Want support building a recovery-aligned business model or healing-centered team culture? That’s exactly what we do at HIP. Let’s talk.
